Broken the integrity of family lov
lala | 09 Februar, 2010 04:19
Ten years ago, my life took place a major turn of events, parents were divorced, because his father and another woman emotional complications occurred.
Their divorce, so my feelings pointer swings occur. My parents were very talented, I have been to have such a proud parent. Now, the pride of a sudden broken because the father's mother's betrayal. I have some hate him.
Mother divorced his father after the workers went on abroad.
Father to go abroad, did not make me away from this fatherly love. Mother had to I could enjoy the fatherly, showing remarkable tolerance and open-minded.
Parents were divorced when I was just entering secondary school.
One day, accidentally saw my mother filled out a form, I have family members fill out only the mother column. Evening, I finish work, my mother said to me solemnly: "Cao, would you like as an adult and I like to talk about it?"
It is with very mixed feelings: "I miss my father before that, and now, I told him do not love them, but also Henbu up. Because he hurt me and the same love of her mother."
Mom was silent for a long time before opening. She said that you are divorced parents, understanding Debu comprehensive, we have sincere love too, and my father has also been dedicated to this family. As for divorce, is that we do not want to get something to live together is our joint decision. Mom said that, we both decided to make a divorce the moment, we both had injuries to you, this responsibility should not all the blame to my father. Mother held back the tears, said: "These, you'll grow up to understand. But will also help you to properly take its future path. Just that you do not need so unpopular with the father. Your father loves you, We are divorce, dissolution of our marriage relationship, you and your father's father-son relationship can never be dispelled. If you can understand my father's love for you, for you, for your father, and even my life is keep living in a warm ... ... "
My mother said to me solemnly: "You said there was no father, your father will be very sad after listening, I listened very sad. Because, although I divorce him, but I do not think we did a blind combination. you have a father, but, Dad and Mom took place unpleasant things, broke up ... ... "
Mom said: "Let your school with such a small age, to understand the reason you should understand that this is your father and mother shared guilt, Mom and Dad do not want you to feel lost in life, what ... ..."
On that day, Mama a lot. Although I do not fully understand, but I can hear out my mother was trying to let me get rid of the feelings of the couple to bring the burden of grudges, so I understand and accept his father for I have not changed the fatherly love.
His father sent abroad to work, just in time to my maintenance. He did not write, each sending money, the should carry a phone. In the phone, with a total mother unavoidably to inquire about my situation. And I do, that is a fit of anger will not answer his phone. Once, he came to call, just pick me, he almost pleaded: "Jill, you can not first and I have to say a few words?" But I am still cooking in the kitchen, immediately to the mother shouted: "Mom , he came to call the. "
Mom and Dad pass end phones later said to me: "You let your father sad, he cried on the phone ... ..."
I listened to my heart is very upset. In fact, that I hate how my father, not the case. Every time I heard him on the phone asked me where expatiated situation, my heart also sour, very upset. Is only around people, especially relatives and friends talking about their parents divorce, are accused of his father. I think, let me accept the father's apology, almost like a public announcement of the mother's infidelity and betrayal.
However, on that night, it is a mother to these and others I have heard a completely different reason, it is a mother to persuade me to continue to respect the father and respect for my father gave me love.
That night, in her mother's suggestion, I gave my father wrote a letter of greetings peace. I clearly remember my father soon gave me a letter in the beginning of the letter reads: "My beloved son, father in a distant foreign country sincerely apologize to you ... ..." I'm reading letter, can not help but cry a.
However, my father received a phone call, my mother criticized him, and do not have to understand their own feelings to the children release their feelings, he and the child's feelings should be without any preconditions of the most pristine feeling of father and son.
After the communication between father and I have been, are they in good faith with each other peacefully convey concern and care. Even I have to teach my father pour out for some old-fashioned mother, the practice of the "unhappy."
Two years later, my father back home. Mom again unconditionally agreed to the request of the father - and I had one weekend a month.
Their divorce, so my feelings pointer swings occur. My parents were very talented, I have been to have such a proud parent. Now, the pride of a sudden broken because the father's mother's betrayal. I have some hate him.
Mother divorced his father after the workers went on abroad.
Father to go abroad, did not make me away from this fatherly love. Mother had to I could enjoy the fatherly, showing remarkable tolerance and open-minded.
Parents were divorced when I was just entering secondary school.
One day, accidentally saw my mother filled out a form, I have family members fill out only the mother column. Evening, I finish work, my mother said to me solemnly: "Cao, would you like as an adult and I like to talk about it?"
It is with very mixed feelings: "I miss my father before that, and now, I told him do not love them, but also Henbu up. Because he hurt me and the same love of her mother."
Mom was silent for a long time before opening. She said that you are divorced parents, understanding Debu comprehensive, we have sincere love too, and my father has also been dedicated to this family. As for divorce, is that we do not want to get something to live together is our joint decision. Mom said that, we both decided to make a divorce the moment, we both had injuries to you, this responsibility should not all the blame to my father. Mother held back the tears, said: "These, you'll grow up to understand. But will also help you to properly take its future path. Just that you do not need so unpopular with the father. Your father loves you, We are divorce, dissolution of our marriage relationship, you and your father's father-son relationship can never be dispelled. If you can understand my father's love for you, for you, for your father, and even my life is keep living in a warm ... ... "
My mother said to me solemnly: "You said there was no father, your father will be very sad after listening, I listened very sad. Because, although I divorce him, but I do not think we did a blind combination. you have a father, but, Dad and Mom took place unpleasant things, broke up ... ... "
Mom said: "Let your school with such a small age, to understand the reason you should understand that this is your father and mother shared guilt, Mom and Dad do not want you to feel lost in life, what ... ..."
On that day, Mama a lot. Although I do not fully understand, but I can hear out my mother was trying to let me get rid of the feelings of the couple to bring the burden of grudges, so I understand and accept his father for I have not changed the fatherly love.
His father sent abroad to work, just in time to my maintenance. He did not write, each sending money, the should carry a phone. In the phone, with a total mother unavoidably to inquire about my situation. And I do, that is a fit of anger will not answer his phone. Once, he came to call, just pick me, he almost pleaded: "Jill, you can not first and I have to say a few words?" But I am still cooking in the kitchen, immediately to the mother shouted: "Mom , he came to call the. "
Mom and Dad pass end phones later said to me: "You let your father sad, he cried on the phone ... ..."
I listened to my heart is very upset. In fact, that I hate how my father, not the case. Every time I heard him on the phone asked me where expatiated situation, my heart also sour, very upset. Is only around people, especially relatives and friends talking about their parents divorce, are accused of his father. I think, let me accept the father's apology, almost like a public announcement of the mother's infidelity and betrayal.
However, on that night, it is a mother to these and others I have heard a completely different reason, it is a mother to persuade me to continue to respect the father and respect for my father gave me love.
That night, in her mother's suggestion, I gave my father wrote a letter of greetings peace. I clearly remember my father soon gave me a letter in the beginning of the letter reads: "My beloved son, father in a distant foreign country sincerely apologize to you ... ..." I'm reading letter, can not help but cry a.
However, my father received a phone call, my mother criticized him, and do not have to understand their own feelings to the children release their feelings, he and the child's feelings should be without any preconditions of the most pristine feeling of father and son.
After the communication between father and I have been, are they in good faith with each other peacefully convey concern and care. Even I have to teach my father pour out for some old-fashioned mother, the practice of the "unhappy."
Two years later, my father back home. Mom again unconditionally agreed to the request of the father - and I had one weekend a month.
Generalna |
Permalink |
Komentari (2) |
Trekbekovi (0)
Mother's Day! Presented a blessing for the mother
lala | 09 Februar, 2010 04:19
Many of my friends have been confused which day Mother's Day, Mother's Day came when no one knows. Mother's Day this year, the date of May 10, 2009, we do children have to remember, and to the hard life of the mother to send a blessing.
Mother's Day is when every year the date is different, so many friends is a headache. In fact, there is a pattern dates to remember rules do not often have asked Mother's Day is a few number of. Each year the second Sunday in May is Mother's Day (some countries will be different).
Mother's Day (Mother's Day):
Mother's Day as a holiday to thank his mother, first appeared in ancient Greece, time is the annual January 8, while in the United States, Canada and some other countries, it is every year the second Sunday in May, some other countries, date is not the same (see below "countries around the world celebrate Mother's Day time is different"). Mothers on this day will usually receive a gift. Carnation be regarded as dedicated to his mother flowers. In China, the mother of flowers are lily flower, also known as Wang Youcao.
Custom (habit & custom):
In the chest to wear pink. Color is luxurious. Those mothers who have passed away still wearing the white carnation flower, and her mother alive, the others are wearing red and pink flowers. On this day, people always find ways to enable mothers to spend a pleasant holiday, thank and compensate for their year of hard work. The most common way is presented to the mother's Mother's Day cards and gifts. Festival, each mother's feelings of joy will receive the children and her husband donated roses or other flowers, candy, books and souvenirs, especially when they receive little children do it yourself above the childish to write with crayons the "Mom, I love you" when the words of the card, it will feel especially proud and pleased. But the most precious and most generous gift, or take them from the daily household chores to liberate easily break all day. On this day, many families by the husband and children to pack off all the housework, mothers do not have to cook, do not have to Xipanshuawan, do not have to do the laundry. There are many families the mother waited on the practice of breakfast in bed.
Mother's Day after its founding, has been the support of people around the world. Amanm Jarvis was alive, the establishment of Mother's Day of the country has reached 43. Today, celebrate this festival of the country even more numerous. Mother's Day, has become a truly international festival. As a rule, "International Mother's Day" is set at the annual was held May 11. Although some countries may be different seasons during the year to celebrate Mother's Day belongs to them, however, including my own, most of the countries, such as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium, etc., are in May The second Sunday to celebrate Mother's Day.
Mother's Day is when every year the date is different, so many friends is a headache. In fact, there is a pattern dates to remember rules do not often have asked Mother's Day is a few number of. Each year the second Sunday in May is Mother's Day (some countries will be different).
Mother's Day (Mother's Day):
Mother's Day as a holiday to thank his mother, first appeared in ancient Greece, time is the annual January 8, while in the United States, Canada and some other countries, it is every year the second Sunday in May, some other countries, date is not the same (see below "countries around the world celebrate Mother's Day time is different"). Mothers on this day will usually receive a gift. Carnation be regarded as dedicated to his mother flowers. In China, the mother of flowers are lily flower, also known as Wang Youcao.
Custom (habit & custom):
In the chest to wear pink. Color is luxurious. Those mothers who have passed away still wearing the white carnation flower, and her mother alive, the others are wearing red and pink flowers. On this day, people always find ways to enable mothers to spend a pleasant holiday, thank and compensate for their year of hard work. The most common way is presented to the mother's Mother's Day cards and gifts. Festival, each mother's feelings of joy will receive the children and her husband donated roses or other flowers, candy, books and souvenirs, especially when they receive little children do it yourself above the childish to write with crayons the "Mom, I love you" when the words of the card, it will feel especially proud and pleased. But the most precious and most generous gift, or take them from the daily household chores to liberate easily break all day. On this day, many families by the husband and children to pack off all the housework, mothers do not have to cook, do not have to Xipanshuawan, do not have to do the laundry. There are many families the mother waited on the practice of breakfast in bed.
Mother's Day after its founding, has been the support of people around the world. Amanm Jarvis was alive, the establishment of Mother's Day of the country has reached 43. Today, celebrate this festival of the country even more numerous. Mother's Day, has become a truly international festival. As a rule, "International Mother's Day" is set at the annual was held May 11. Although some countries may be different seasons during the year to celebrate Mother's Day belongs to them, however, including my own, most of the countries, such as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium, etc., are in May The second Sunday to celebrate Mother's Day.
Generalna |
Permalink |
Komentari (5) |
Trekbekovi (0)
Mother's Day - Thanksgiving Mother
lala | 09 Februar, 2010 04:18
Thanksgiving Mother's Day
The first hold his mother, the mother was sick, stay in the hospital. Our brothers and sisters take turns to guard the mother.'s My turn to guard the mother that day, nurses came in for the sheets, called his mother up. The mother very sick, and turned out of bed is very difficult, I hasten to say: "Mother, you do not move, and I'll hold you."
I hold the letter left the mother's neck, right hand lived in the mother's Leg, straining a hold. Did not think her mother gently, I am too much force, almost throwing sound down his back. Nurse behind Satisfy me one, blame that : "You are so great difficulty doing?" I said: "I did not expect my mother for such a light." nurse asked: "Do you think you have multiple mother?" I said: "I thought my mother has a hundred kilos." nurse Puchi laughed and said: "your mother so small, not to mention sick in such a way, that is the prime time, I guess he could not reach 90 pounds." her mother said with a smile: "You're discerning, my life, I most of the time only 89 pounds. "
Mother went so far as such a light that I was very sad. Nurses make fun of me: "loss you and your mother lived for several decades, eyesight so bad.: I said:" If your mother lives with my mother for several decades, you will look inaccurate. "
In my memory, the hands of the mother is always pulling me back carrying a sister, and then pick the shoulders a heavy burden to climb over one hundred kilograms Ling, year after year, until we grow up. We are long, you can do live, but whenever there is a heavy burden, the mother always keeps us down, to pick her own. I always thought his mother Litaiwuqiong had no idea that she used 80 kilograms of body, to bear the heavy load.
I looked at mother's thin face, guilt, saying: "Mom, I do not live your ah."
Nurses are also emotional, said: "Aunt, you are really great."
His mother laugh, said: "talk about those things do? That the mother is not the case come from?"
Nurse old sheets away and covered over with new bed linen, brings a carefully leveled the edges, and then back told me: "Aunt put to go, it softer."
I just spontaneously sprout up: "Mom, you hold me small to large, I do not hold it over you one back. Let me hold you sleep it." The mother said: "Get me down, do not let people joke." Nurse , said: "Aunt, you let him hold one back to it." This mother did not make sound.
I sat on the edge of the bed, put his mother in her arms, hold me like a child holds his mother did. To make his mother go to sleep easier, I would gently shake her. Nurses can not bear to leave, sitting in a chair speaking I am a mother.
The mother finally close your eyes. I thought his mother was asleep, and ready to put her into bed and go, but I suddenly saw, there are two lines of tears flow out from the mother's eyes.
Mother is the greatest man! Mother's Day arrived, the mother returned home to see our bar !!!!!!
To send a bouquet of carnations, eat a reunion Dayton sheet, table of a filial piety!
The first hold his mother, the mother was sick, stay in the hospital. Our brothers and sisters take turns to guard the mother.'s My turn to guard the mother that day, nurses came in for the sheets, called his mother up. The mother very sick, and turned out of bed is very difficult, I hasten to say: "Mother, you do not move, and I'll hold you."
I hold the letter left the mother's neck, right hand lived in the mother's Leg, straining a hold. Did not think her mother gently, I am too much force, almost throwing sound down his back. Nurse behind Satisfy me one, blame that : "You are so great difficulty doing?" I said: "I did not expect my mother for such a light." nurse asked: "Do you think you have multiple mother?" I said: "I thought my mother has a hundred kilos." nurse Puchi laughed and said: "your mother so small, not to mention sick in such a way, that is the prime time, I guess he could not reach 90 pounds." her mother said with a smile: "You're discerning, my life, I most of the time only 89 pounds. "
Mother went so far as such a light that I was very sad. Nurses make fun of me: "loss you and your mother lived for several decades, eyesight so bad.: I said:" If your mother lives with my mother for several decades, you will look inaccurate. "
In my memory, the hands of the mother is always pulling me back carrying a sister, and then pick the shoulders a heavy burden to climb over one hundred kilograms Ling, year after year, until we grow up. We are long, you can do live, but whenever there is a heavy burden, the mother always keeps us down, to pick her own. I always thought his mother Litaiwuqiong had no idea that she used 80 kilograms of body, to bear the heavy load.
I looked at mother's thin face, guilt, saying: "Mom, I do not live your ah."
Nurses are also emotional, said: "Aunt, you are really great."
His mother laugh, said: "talk about those things do? That the mother is not the case come from?"
Nurse old sheets away and covered over with new bed linen, brings a carefully leveled the edges, and then back told me: "Aunt put to go, it softer."
I just spontaneously sprout up: "Mom, you hold me small to large, I do not hold it over you one back. Let me hold you sleep it." The mother said: "Get me down, do not let people joke." Nurse , said: "Aunt, you let him hold one back to it." This mother did not make sound.
I sat on the edge of the bed, put his mother in her arms, hold me like a child holds his mother did. To make his mother go to sleep easier, I would gently shake her. Nurses can not bear to leave, sitting in a chair speaking I am a mother.
The mother finally close your eyes. I thought his mother was asleep, and ready to put her into bed and go, but I suddenly saw, there are two lines of tears flow out from the mother's eyes.
Mother is the greatest man! Mother's Day arrived, the mother returned home to see our bar !!!!!!
To send a bouquet of carnations, eat a reunion Dayton sheet, table of a filial piety!
Generalna |
Permalink |
Dodaj komentar |
Trekbekovi (0)
Čestitamo!
lala | 09 Februar, 2010 04:17
Ukoliko možete da pročitate ovaj članak, uspešno ste se registrovali na Blog.rs i možete početi sa blogovanjem.
Generalna |
Permalink |
Komentari (1) |
Trekbekovi (0)
Meni
Pretraži
Kalendar
| « | Decembar 2025 | » | ||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Po | Ut | Sr | Če | Pe | Su | Ne |
| 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 |
| 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 |
| 15 | 16 | 17 | 18 | 19 | 20 | 21 |
| 22 | 23 | 24 | 25 | 26 | 27 | 28 |
| 29 | 30 | 31 | ||||