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Broken the integrity of family lov

lala | 09 Februar, 2010 04:19

Ten years ago, my life took place a major turn of events, parents were divorced, because his father and another woman emotional complications occurred.

Their divorce, so my feelings pointer swings occur. My parents were very talented, I have been to have such a proud parent. Now, the pride of a sudden broken because the father's mother's betrayal. I have some hate him.

Mother divorced his father after the workers went on abroad.

Father to go abroad, did not make me away from this fatherly love. Mother had to I could enjoy the fatherly, showing remarkable tolerance and open-minded.

Parents were divorced when I was just entering secondary school.

One day, accidentally saw my mother filled out a form, I have family members fill out only the mother column. Evening, I finish work, my mother said to me solemnly: "Cao, would you like as an adult and I like to talk about it?"

It is with very mixed feelings: "I miss my father before that, and now, I told him do not love them, but also Henbu up. Because he hurt me and the same love of her mother."

Mom was silent for a long time before opening. She said that you are divorced parents, understanding Debu comprehensive, we have sincere love too, and my father has also been dedicated to this family. As for divorce, is that we do not want to get something to live together is our joint decision. Mom said that, we both decided to make a divorce the moment, we both had injuries to you, this responsibility should not all the blame to my father. Mother held back the tears, said: "These, you'll grow up to understand. But will also help you to properly take its future path. Just that you do not need so unpopular with the father. Your father loves you, We are divorce, dissolution of our marriage relationship, you and your father's father-son relationship can never be dispelled. If you can understand my father's love for you, for you, for your father, and even my life is keep living in a warm ... ... "

My mother said to me solemnly: "You said there was no father, your father will be very sad after listening, I listened very sad. Because, although I divorce him, but I do not think we did a blind combination. you have a father, but, Dad and Mom took place unpleasant things, broke up ... ... "

Mom said: "Let your school with such a small age, to understand the reason you should understand that this is your father and mother shared guilt, Mom and Dad do not want you to feel lost in life, what ... ..."

On that day, Mama a lot. Although I do not fully understand, but I can hear out my mother was trying to let me get rid of the feelings of the couple to bring the burden of grudges, so I understand and accept his father for I have not changed the fatherly love.

His father sent abroad to work, just in time to my maintenance. He did not write, each sending money, the should carry a phone. In the phone, with a total mother unavoidably to inquire about my situation. And I do, that is a fit of anger will not answer his phone. Once, he came to call, just pick me, he almost pleaded: "Jill, you can not first and I have to say a few words?" But I am still cooking in the kitchen, immediately to the mother shouted: "Mom , he came to call the. "

Mom and Dad pass end phones later said to me: "You let your father sad, he cried on the phone ... ..."

I listened to my heart is very upset. In fact, that I hate how my father, not the case. Every time I heard him on the phone asked me where expatiated situation, my heart also sour, very upset. Is only around people, especially relatives and friends talking about their parents divorce, are accused of his father. I think, let me accept the father's apology, almost like a public announcement of the mother's infidelity and betrayal.

However, on that night, it is a mother to these and others I have heard a completely different reason, it is a mother to persuade me to continue to respect the father and respect for my father gave me love.

That night, in her mother's suggestion, I gave my father wrote a letter of greetings peace. I clearly remember my father soon gave me a letter in the beginning of the letter reads: "My beloved son, father in a distant foreign country sincerely apologize to you ... ..." I'm reading letter, can not help but cry a.

However, my father received a phone call, my mother criticized him, and do not have to understand their own feelings to the children release their feelings, he and the child's feelings should be without any preconditions of the most pristine feeling of father and son.

After the communication between father and I have been, are they in good faith with each other peacefully convey concern and care. Even I have to teach my father pour out for some old-fashioned mother, the practice of the "unhappy."

Two years later, my father back home. Mom again unconditionally agreed to the request of the father - and I had one weekend a month.

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